People who sacrifice their lives in order to help others are never valued and are often taken for granted. In our world, everyone looks out for themselves, regardless of whether the other person is an outsider or a blood family. This is the harsh reality of our materialistic society—people only care about themselves and their concerns, never considering the problems of others.
OP was facing the same scenario when her sister wanted her to quit her job to babysit her niece for free. OP had taken a gap year from her studies after high school and was doing a part-time job with a minimum wage. If OP accepted her request, then OP had to leave her college for three years along with her part-time job, which in her sister’s eyes was ‘not a real job’. OP asked her to pay for babysitting the same amount as she was getting from her job, but her sister got mad at her for asking for money from blood relatives. OP’s family was on OP’s sister’s side and criticized her for not helping her sister in need. Read the whole story to learn about OP’s narrative, and share your views in the comment section below.
1. OP ask if it was wrong of her to not quit her job to babysit her niece.
2. OP had taken a year off after high school before starting college and was doing a part-time job with a minimum wage. OP’s sister had a baby girl and wanted someone to babysit her.
3. OP’s sister asked OP to babysit her niece, but OP refused since she had to apply for college next year and also had a part-time job, which in her sister’s eyes was not a real job.
4. OP agreed to babysit if her sister would pay her the same amount that she was receiving from her part-time job. OP’s sister got mad that OP was asking for money to take care of her own niece.
5. OP’s family was on OP’s sister’s side and wanted OP to quit her job and help her sister by taking care of her baby for free.
6. OP thanked all of the Redditors for their suggestions and stated that she would never quit her work for her sister while simultaneously applying for college admission shortly.
Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.
7. According to Redditor, OP’s sister needs a punch.
8. Yes, there are many in this world, like OP’s sister.
9. Certainly! Other family members could help her sister.
10. OP explained that they all had full-time jobs to run the household.
11. Redditor urges OP to apply to enroll in college soon.
12. Yes, either OP was paid to babysit or her sister should parent her child herself.
13. Indeed! OP had her own live to live.
14. Redditor advices OP to start working for her own future and avoid her selfish sister.
15. Redditor cautions OP that if she gives in to her family’s demands, she would regret it.
16. Obviously! The child was her sister’s responsibility, not OP’s.
17. Redditor has a valid point.
18. Yes, OP’s family needed a proper excuse from OP to not babysit her niece.
19. Redditor thinks that OP’s sister actually wanted free childcare, which is why she wanted her family to babysit her kid.
20. Yes, OP’s sister wanted free labor, which OP could not give.
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